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Fall Out Boy is back

Mary Childers | Contributing Writer February 10, 2013

Guitarist Joe Trohman of Fall Out Boy performs on Friday, April 24, 2009, at Bojangles' Coliseum in Charlotte, North Carolina.

Local clothing company gives back

Tabitha Shiflett | Staff Writer February 9, 2013

 In 2009, brother and sister duo, Christian and Carmin Black started HALF UNITED, a humanitarian clothing company in downtown Wilmington, with  two hundred dollars, and a dream of fighting hunger by...

Annual “Flash Fiction” contest seeks student experimentation

Shannon McCabe | Staff Writer February 8, 2013

Randall Library is holding its annual "Flash Fiction" contest. Earlier this month they announced the 2013 submission theme must be "Laboratory" Why laboratory? The library staff recognized the high demands...

Hicks metal sculpture Ephemeral Part. 1 is currently showcased in the Boseman gallery.

UNCW photographer and business student makes sculpture debut

Lori Wilson | Staff Writer February 8, 2013

Hicks first photo series "Faces on Front."

Shinn’s influence on campus will endure through the various art installations he sanctioned, a couple of which can be seen in Randall Library. Artwork from famous glass blower Dale Chihuly, a recipient of a National Living Treasure award, is exhibited in Randall thanks to Shinn’s determination.

Remembering professor Gerald Shinn

Lori Wilson | Staff Writer February 6, 2013

Shinn’s influence on campus will endure through the various art installations he sanctioned, a couple of which can be seen in Randall Library. Artwork from famous glass blower Dale Chihuly, a recipient of a National Living Treasure award, is exhibited in Randall thanks to Shinn’s determination.

The hookup culture: hangout or modern romance

Megan Henry | Contributing Writer February 4, 2013

We've all done it. Nearly every twenty-something in America has experienced, in some way or another, the casual sex phenomenon that has become known as the "hookup culture." Gone are the days of...

New organization Ratio Christi hosts faith debate

February 2, 2013

New student organization Ratio Christi held its first official event in Cameron Auditorium Feb.1- a live streaming of the Biola University sponsored debate "Is Faith in God Reasonable?"Ratio Christi...

Jazz bringing life to UNCW

Mary Childers | Contributing Writer February 1, 2013

Jazz music was flowing through Beckwith Recital Hall Thursday night on the UNC-Wilmington campus as faculty got together to showcase their musical talents. The event was aimed to be a fundraiser for scholarships...

A sweet and sexy Valentine’s Day

Tabitha Shiflett | Staff Writer February 1, 2013

Put a little sugar and spice into your Valentine's Day with help from local Wilmington lingerie and sex shop managers willing to share some of their hottest tips, tricks and toys.Sex depends on personality...

 

College virgins: not a myth

Lori Wilson | Staff Writer February 1, 2013

 

Author reading held by UNCW Creative Writing Department

Shannon McCabe | Contributing Writer February 1, 2013

The UNCW Creative Writing Department held a reading for authors Karen Bender and Malena Mörling on Thursday, Jan. 31. Both authors are also professors for the department, and students, friends and...

Online dating on the rise

Jeffrey Cashwell | Contributing Writer February 1, 2013

 

Love is in the air. The birds are chirping, stores are filled with a sweet, chocolatey aroma, and-wait, what's this? A new message from Bustybabe91? That's right, you too can now "chat online with babes all day."

Online dating may soon become the go-to place to find your future husband or wife. As surprising as that might sound, it was reported by the business firm Chadwick Martin Bailey that in 2010, 1 out of 6 couples found love online. This statistic is rising each year, with more people turning to cyberspace for their significant other, including myself. I've been in a happy relationship for nearly half a year.

There's a lot to like about online dating. It's convenient, easy to set up, and makes the selection process as easy as hitting the "block" button on your computer screen. However, there are a few negative aspects to choosing a partner online.

Psychologists from the Association for Psychological Science generally agree that although the online "profiles" we create and browse are made with our intentions clear, it's often the case that what we perceive as desirable for ourselves is not always realistic. Another problem is the sheer number of profiles at disposal when browsing these dating sites. Rather than settling for a potential partner, one can simply hit next and continue their search for the perfect one-much like shopping for a pair of jeans or shoes.

Popularized by MTV's television show "Catfish," fake profiles have been trending too. These profiles will bait naïve users into relationships that hold no face value. The online dating world can be a hunting ground for people like this, and it's important to request some form of verification before proceeding to give away personal information about yourself.

It's not all bad news, though. Online dating is indeed a great invention for those who don't have the time to find that special someone in a real-world setting. By setting realistic goals and not limiting yourself to the top 5 percent in compatibility, nearly anyone can find someone they fancy.

With technology quickly integrating itself into every corner of everyday life, many students attending college in the past decade have migrated their dating life into an online setting where it's more manageable. Instead of wasting time and resource on a disastrous first date, discovering interests, hobbies, and personality traits before going out may save you a lot of headache on top of stress from school and work.

Here's some advice: do not hesitate to meet someone if they check out. My partner and I met only a few hours after I created my profile. We went on a date the same night. Also, keep online dating strictly for meeting people to date and set up a night out sooner rather than later or else you're no closer to discovering a spark between the two of you.

Any single person interested in getting their feet wet in the online world should not hesitate. According to Google Trends, Match.com reigns as the most popular dating website whereas OkCupid is increasing in popularity and coming in a close second. UNCW students may find their niche on DateMySchool.com (a new dating website that's slowly but surely making an impression) where like-minded college students can date people who are going to college or who have already graduated.

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